Ready to bounce again. Take all 10 inches of my new fat dild..
Added 2022-12-14 00:45:20 +0000 UTCReady to bounce again. Take all 10 inches of my new fat dildo 🥵 Apologies on being ill. I’ll also be extremely transparent here: I get stuck in this perfectionism trap and I just really need to get it through my thick little skull that while you all **love** my more stylized and made-up work, you just **want** to see me in any form I am in. When this happens, I become avoidant, worried about you all being upset with me and don’t act like the horny professional I am! I am sure many of us suffer from that freeze of perfectionism. It’s likely that it’s a trauma response and we are frozen in fight/flight. Unable to make choices or believe in our capabilities because we worry that unless it’s a perfect choice, it’s wrong. Then we get anxiety or shame over not doing the thing and disappointing people. But what’s better than perfection? Action! And our belief in our actions will grow as we build up trust in ourselves to do the thing and not put ourselves into an anxiety/shame spiral.
