On a sad note, we lost another couple to this lifestyle. The wife has run away with another man, she couldnโt differentiate between love and lust, and she followed love. You are not supposed to fall in love youโre supposed to stay in lust until the male or female gets rid of it for you. She hasnโt talk to me about it yet but when she does text me, Iโm gonna let her have it. Another couple swooped up by this lifestyle.