this is just a lonnnnnnggg vent about my experience sharing ..

this is just a lonnnnnnggg vent about my experience sharing that i'm a virgin online (but rewritten *much* shorter, believe it or not hahah)... so to preface, i wanna say that i don't judge kinks and that includes the good ol' virgin kink. i find it hot to know that so many of y'all are getting off to ME/my content and honestly couldn't care less about what you're thinking about when you do so. that said, i'm really not interested in opinions/advice/comfort about me being a virgin or anything around the topic of "losing" it. i know it's rarely the intention, but conversations centered around virginity tend to be extremely condescending and are almost never enjoyable for me. yes, i talk a lot about it, but that's because it's a part of my life (considering this is a site about sexuality and i'm not having sex) & my page is all about sharing. but it's just a silly term, not my identity. i'm sure i've said things in my posts that could mislead someone to believe i'm absolutely miserable because i'm a virgin, but that's not the case. i don't think virginity is actually a big deal, and though i wish i wasn't in this boat, i'm not basing my worth on that and there's nothing to feel sorry for me about. i don't need advice, i don't need guidance, and i definitely don't need to hear about your first time having sex. also... sex isn't a ticket to adulthood or something, so it'd be real cool if we could get rid of that mindset that so many people seem to have. as for the people with virgin kinks, i'm not here to give you details about what i fantasize about my first time being like (news flash: i don't... i fantasize about sex, not virginity since it's not my kink) or hear you praise me for being so pure. it's just uncomfortable. this goes for all kinks, but i figured i should specifically mention this one, since there's understandably a blurry line with the topic. okay, that's it. i'm sorry if this seems negative, i'm really not too upset about it & know i put myself in this position! i just figure it can't hurt to share my perspective. thanksss 🤗