

“Please give me your delicious cum…PLEASE!” I’m not one to beg, but when I’m dripping with desire and aching to drip with so much more, I’m not too proud to plead with my lover. In fact, I fucking love it. And the REAL icing on the cake is seeing the look in his eyes when his primal senses pick up the scent of my raw desire, both of us drvnk on the cocktail of deep emotional intimacy + animalistic hunger. But it wasn’t always this way. For over a decade, this man’s soul felt repeatedly crushed by my rejection of his manhood, while I continuously wrestled with doubts about my womanhood. Both of us afraid of being too much; both of us feeling like we were not enough. Sure, we’d have sex; but once orgasms were accomplished for us both, we were left with a deeper yearning. Then, about once a year, we’d have an huge fight about sex, where all the hidden resentments and judgments erupted like hot lava, damaging everything in its path. “Why isn’t this enough?” we both questioned the rest of the time, secretly, because we were too ashamed to admit we were unsatisfied. It felt like all we could do was try to recreate the passion we had while dating & newly married. Life happened. Kids happened. Financial hardships happened. Disabilities happened. There was always something more important than worrying about whether or not my husband felt wanted and accepted sexually. There was always something more pressing than the exploration of my own desires. Little did I know then how powerful cultivating desire would be. Every seemingly insurmountable issue we were facing shifted once we truly began feeling like we could trust and surrender, TOGETHER. We began unraveling the shame that had kept us so lonely inside our marriage. It felt like it was us against the world again, except this time, there was nothing to prove; just US, emotionally and spiritually connected, sexually alive, and full of possibilities. This next chapter has many juicy pages already. Ready to unlock more pleasure and juiciness in your sex life and relationship? Apply for coaching with either or both of us. <3 Photo by Frank Martinez