Aftercare after every sensual and sexual encounter is a beau..
Added 2021-11-20 19:54:34 +0000 UTCAftercare after every sensual and sexual encounter is a beautiful opportunity to co-regulate as you both come down the highs of being in an altered state (sex, a kinky scene, or otherwise). It’s also a tender, powerful time to integrate the experience, creating feelings of safety in our bodies and nervous system. These “memories” are imprinted within our bodies, whether we’re conscious about it or disregard it in a rush to wherever is next on the agenda. Aftercare can look like… Wrapping up in a soft, cuddly blanket. Taking a hot shower. Cuddling. Soft, sensual touch all over the body. Moaning and sounding, alone or together. Hair stroking. A yummy meal. A nap. And so much more. For some experiences that are particularly intense—whether emotionally, physically, energetically, mentally, or all of the above—aftercare may be needed for multiple days. We learned (the hard way, years ago) to allow plenty of space for integration after new experiences that may be a shock to the nervous system, like the one we had here last night. Space for more feels to emerge. Space for connection and “aha” moments. This weekend is that space, and within it, Ryan’s body is getting extra love and TLC.💋💋 For an extra intimate close-up moment sent to your DMs, tip $5 on this post.
