A song called “Take Control” by Amerie. As someone who consi..
Added 2023-10-06 17:03:07 +0000 UTCA song called “Take Control” by Amerie. As someone who considers themselves a feminist, I would’ve never admitted in my late teens and 20s that I would EVER want a man to take control of me sexually or to dominate me that way. I remember hearing this song for the first time and was taken aback, realizing I then had a new secret that I didn’t want to confess. So I went around pretending to be more alpha. I’m simply not, I was lying to myself. I’m sigma for sure, not a beta woman by any real means. I’m quite the submissive, though I can also be versatile but only if my partner needs me to be. A “bossy bottom” through and through. And a woman chooses to get controlled. I made this choice. 🖤 😏
